Her envelope
A blush envelope with her name on it waits on the screen. One tap and it opens.
Bridal party proposal
A bridesmaid proposal she gets to spin
She opens an envelope with her name on it and reads your note as it writes itself in, word by word. Then she pulls the lever on a blush slot machine, and after one near miss the jackpot lands and your question appears under falling petals.
$14.99
4.97 shop rating on Etsy
New this season. One purchase covers your whole bridal party.
New this season. One purchase covers your whole bridal party.
This is the real thing, filled with sample details.
what they see
How the reveal plays out
It feels like opening a letter and playing a tiny game at the same time. She is the one pulling the lever, so the moment is hers.
Your note, word by word
Your message writes itself onto a cream card, signed by you. It reads like a real letter, not a quick text.
She spins
A blush slot machine waits for her. The first spin is a near miss. The next one lines up three bouquets for the jackpot.
The big question
"Sophie, will you be my bridesmaid?" fills the screen as petals fall, with your wedding date underneath.
make it yours
What you can personalize
- Every role built in: bridesmaid, maid of honor, matron of honor, flower girl, junior bridesmaid and officiant
- Unlimited proposals for your own wedding party, each with its own private link
- Her name on the envelope, and your own question if you want to ask it your way
- Ready-made notes, or a personal note written for anyone
- An optional sign-off and wedding date
- A printable 4x6 QR card for each person
- A preview of exactly what each person will see
Made for
- Asking your whole bridal party at once
- Long-distance bridesmaids
- Sisters and best friends
- Little flower girls
- Proposal boxes and gift bags
- Last-minute proposals
Asking for a specific role?
how it works
Ready to send in about five minutes
1Buy on Etsy
Download the PDF right after checkout. It has your builder link and password.
2Fill in the builder
Paste in your list of names, pick each person's role and note, and preview every proposal. Your work saves as you go.
3Send the link
Text or email each person their own link, or print their QR card for a proposal box.
good to know
Questions people ask
Do I need to buy one for each bridesmaid?
No. One purchase lets you make as many proposals as you need for your own wedding party. Everyone gets their own link, their name on the envelope and their own note.
Will it work for a little flower girl?
Yes. Pick the flower girl role and send the link to her parents so they can open it with her. Keep her note short and sweet so it's easy to read aloud.
Can I put it in a proposal box?
Yes. Every person gets a printable 4x6 QR card. Tuck it into a box, a gift bag or a handwritten card, and she scans it to open her proposal.
Does she need an app or an account?
No. It opens in the web browser on any phone, iPhone or Android. She just needs an internet connection.
Can I change it after I make the link?
A link can't be edited once it's made, but you can make a new one anytime.
Is anything mailed to me?
No. It's a digital download, so no cards, envelopes or gifts ship.
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Ready to make someone gasp?
It's a digital download on Etsy. Make it tonight and send it whenever you're ready.