His name on the envelope
A cream envelope sealed with wax waits on a navy screen, addressed to him. One tap and it opens.
Groomsman proposal game
A slot machine groomsman proposal he gets to spin
He opens a sealed envelope with his name on it, and your note writes itself in, word by word. Then he pulls up to a slot machine in a whiskey lounge, misses once, and lands three bow ties with your question waiting underneath.
$14.99
4.97 shop rating on Etsy
This is the real thing, filled with sample details.
what they see
How the reveal plays out
It plays like a quiet night out at an old-school casino: navy, cream and gold, with a little suspense before the big ask. It takes about a minute, and he will want to show someone.
Your note, word by word
The note you picked or wrote types itself onto a cream card, signed off with your name, like "Cheers, Mike."
Pull the lever
A vintage slot machine sits in a whiskey lounge. The first spin is a near miss, so he has to go again.
Three bow ties
The reels line up and your question lands in big letters: "Jake, will you be my Groomsman?"
make it yours
What you can personalize
- A private link for every guy you are asking, all from one purchase
- His name on the envelope and your own note, written in word by word
- Roles built in: Groomsman, Best Man, Ring Bearer, Junior Groomsman and Officiant, or write your own question
- An optional sign-off and wedding date
- A printable 4x6 QR card with each person's name on it
- A navy, cream and gold vintage casino look
- Opens on any phone, tablet or computer
Made for
- Asking the whole groomsmen crew
- Best man and ring bearer too
- Long-distance friends
- Groomsman proposal boxes
- Whiskey and cigar guys
- Last-minute asks
Other versions
how it works
Ready to send in about five minutes
1Buy on Etsy
Download the "How to Get Started" PDF right after checkout. It has your builder link and password.
2Fill in the builder
Pick a note or write your own, then type each name and choose his role. Keep the suggested question or write a new one.
3Send the link
Preview it, then text or email each link, or print his 4x6 QR card for a gift box.
good to know
Questions people ask
Do I need to buy one for each groomsman?
No. One purchase covers your whole wedding party. The builder makes a separate link and QR card for every person, each with his own name and note.
Can I use it to ask my best man or ring bearer?
Yes. Best Man, Groomsman, Ring Bearer, Junior Groomsman and Officiant are built in, or you can write any question you like. There is also a kid-friendly ring bearer version you can try in the demo before you buy.
Can I give it to him in person?
Yes. Print his 4x6 QR card and tuck it into a groomsman proposal box. He scans it with his phone to open his proposal. Cards and boxes are not included.
Does he need an app?
No. It opens in the web browser on any phone, tablet or computer, with nothing to install.
Can I change a link after I make it?
Links can't be edited once they're made, but you can make a new one anytime. Your links are saved in the browser you made them in, and you can email yourself a copy.
Is anything mailed to me?
No. It's a digital download, so nothing ships.
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Ready to make someone gasp?
It's a digital download on Etsy. Make it tonight and send it whenever you're ready.